**Pursuit Of Love Series**
You know in those movies when there is an army unit walking through a jungle and all of sudden they slam down 10 feet into a trap their enemy laid out for them? They know there is probably a trap somewhere but you just don’t exactly know when it is coming. Well women lay these same traps out for men, so lets take a look at them and please if anyone wants to give me advice on these please do so!
I Swear Nothing Is Wrong…
This one use to drive me absolutely insane until I realized I am just going to take their word for it and won’t worry about it. If they are mad they will come up to me when they are ready to rumble. With that being said nothing drives me more insane when I do this and ignore them and they are ready to talk and they are mad at me because I didn’t care enough! Yes this has happened and has happened multiple times. No win situation here! So what in the world should I do??
Oh No Go With Your Friends…
Here is another no win situation, so I go with my friends and I am miserable because I can’t stand knowing I am going to get reamed when I get home. Or I stay home with her, ditch my friends, but she is still mad just at the thought of you considering going out with your friends. So now I am miserable at home with my girlfriend. This doesn’t happen all the time and usually something comes up last minute with my friends. I am curious how I am suppose to work this one out.
It Is Totally Fine You Like Sports…
My favorite part about this one is I have probably heard from all my girlfriends this same thing “oh I like sports too”. Not quite like guys like sports, well not quite like how I like sports. I will admit I might have a little obsession with watching sports, and yes I know I am going to have to dial it down a notch or two. But I fall for it every time when my girlfriend tells me it is okay to watch sports. Then 3 months down the road I all of a sudden have a total ‘problem’ and need to stop watching as much. (Side note for women, October is one of the best months of sports of the year. There is NFL, College Football and the Baseball Playoffs… Just a heads up)
This last one is not necessary a statement but more of when she complains about her day or a person or something happening in her life. A man is a problem solver, we solve problems ladies! So our first instinct is to SHUT YOU UP! Totally kidding, but we want to help, we want to help solve that problem you are having. I am slowly realizing you women don’t want the help, you literally could care less about our advice. So what I am asking is what in the world do we do? Smile and nod? Act like we are listening? I would love to hear what to do on this one.
Do guys do this? Would love to hear those as well!